Dating 101
- Shela Setiawan
- Jun 10, 2016
- 2 min read
Are you ready to ask her out?
Teenage life is identically with love life. Yes! LOVE LIFE! Who are never getting fall-in-love during their school life or university life? Even the nerdy ones, they have felt their stomach was full by the butterflies because of the fall-in-love feeling. But if we talk about love life, there will be happy and also sad moments, right? Each person will have different kind of happiness moments that happened in their love life. Meanwhile, for the sad things, I am pretty sure that everyone does have rejection experiences in their love life story and it is the saddest moment. It can be rejection for many things and one of them is getting rejected for a date.
"Ask her directly, face-to-face"
There is a proverb that said “Prevention is better than cure”. And yes! That is exactly right! But how? How to prevent getting the rejection of asking for a date? Here are some tips that you guys, the youngsters, need to do if you want to ask for a date without get any rejection:
First thing you need to do is showing your interest with her. Make her feel that you are really into her, by:
Ask her directly, face-to-face
Choose the right time and place
Be clear with "when" and "where"
Treating her properly. This can be realized, by:
Treat her with respect
Don't look like a stalker
Be honest with your feelings
Presenting yourself in a positive light:
Maintaining your body language
Watch your intonations
Show your confidence
Those are the tips that you need to follow if you didn’t want to get rejection by asking for a date!
Did you know when you do the face-to-face interactions you will easily understand her and also it will be easier to get her responses. Moreover, by face-to-face interactions, they can easily show their body language and easily to catch the meanings. Based on Organizational Behavior book by Stephen P. Robbins and Timothy A. Judge:
“Face-to-face conversation highest in channel richness because it transmits the most information per communication episode —multiple information cues (words, postures, facial expressions, gestures, intonations), immediate feedback (both verbal and nonverbal) the personal touch of being present.”
Thus, after you follow the steps above, do not worry anymore for being rejected to ask for a date. Good luck , guys! ♥
“Relationships cannot grow without a proper amount of communication”
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